Almost all paraphilias are male. People with paraphilias often have more than one paraphilia. It is suggested that male vulnerability to paraphilias is closely linked to their greater dependency on visual sexual imagery. Sexual arousal in men may perhaps depend on physical stimulus features to a greater degree than in women, whose arousal may depend more on emotional context, such as being in love.

I guess it’s true what they say,women fall in love their ears and men fall in love with their eyes.